yea, i see your problem (i ve seen many girls, especially Chinese girl, behaving like you )
I understand that life in a foreigner country is boring, but I suggest you to get rid of this man, completely, cuz he is not worth. Try to do other things, and know other people, even simply chatting with different people online or looking for ONS (it seems cynical, but really exciting). Then, you will soon realize that the world is so wonderful, and there are so many great men just around you.
It is actually how most of Western girls live.
Good luck, in any case.
公共马甲1 发表于 2011-3-31 20:08
i'm not interested in ONS.it's quite disgusting of flirting with a stranger or someone that im not ...
"It's easier to say than to do." I fully agree, it is not easy at all, and it's why you are looking for help here and I am trying to "help" you (I hope so ^^). I am sorry for mentioning ONS, what I wanna say is trying to know other people, there are full of interesting people, it only depends how much you accept them and how open-minded you are, do you agree?
Plz, don't say ONS is disgusting, there is nothing immoral. If you really think ONS is disgusting, then you must come to the conclusion that the whole world is disgusting, isn't it? but if you really think of what is ONS, in my understanding, it is just a natural freedom, based on respect and emotion of course. It only depends on your personal taste and experience. It is not actually my taste neither, but I ve done 2 times in my life, and I found it just lovely (maybe because I was a lucky man).
Chatting with people online, if you prefer, it is a save way. You will get "confidence" and then you can get rid of that man, good luck~~
PS, thanks for remaining my mistake
PPS, it might be a bad idea to be serious here, while most of people is just looking for fun~~
公共马甲1 发表于 2011-3-31 20:08
i'm not interested in ONS.it's quite disgusting of flirting with a stranger or someone that im not ...
"It's easier to say than to do." I fully agree, it is not easy at all, and it's why you are looking for help here and I am trying to "help" you (I hope so ^^). I am sorry for mentioning ONS, what I wanna say is trying to know other people, there are full of interesting people, it only depends how much you accept them and how open-minded you are, do you agree?
Plz, don't say ONS is disgusting, there is nothing immoral. If you really think ONS is disgusting, then you must come to the conclusion that the whole world is disgusting, isn't it? but if you really think of what is ONS, in my understanding, it is just a natural freedom, based on respect and emotion of course. It only depends on your personal taste and experience. It is not actually my taste neither, but I ve done 2 times in my life, and I found it just lovely (maybe because I was a lucky man).
Chatting with people online, if you prefer, it is a save way. You will get "confidence" and then you can get rid of that man, good luck~~
PS, thanks for remaining my mistake
PPS, it might be a bad idea to be serious here, while most of people is just looking for fun~~
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